Many of you, surely, were all told the Baptist’s belief on sex and, well, sexuality in general. The idea they gave is that it is all wrong, unless you happen to be married. Here is my take on it.
Sex is awesome! Why wouldn’t people want to do it???????
Sex is not dirty. Well, maybe sometimes it is. But what I mean to say is that it is not a sin. You are not going to go to hell, be struck dead, or fall into a downward spiral. ( I am not exactly sure what my dad always meant by that but whatever.)
Sex is a fun thing. For very many reasons. I will let you fill in the blanks.
Sex is an exploration and another way to discover yourself. To all the ones who have just left the IFB don’t hesitate to try something new. You may find out that you are gay, lesbian, transgender, or bi. Or you may find out your a freak. Once again you fill it in.
Sex is good education. Many of us that were raised in Fundamentalism were never taught anything about our bodies. If you are sexually active that will eventually change. Or you could just take a sex ed class. But I would suggest the real thing.
Sex is great stress relief. Look it up. It really is.
So yeah. This post is kinda, I don’t know, inappropriate maybe. But this blog is about me expressing myself and what I have learned since leaving this cult. And sex is one of those things.